“Never let ‘em see you sweat.”
Isn’t that how the saying goes?
We know it so well.
We hide our hurts, our struggles, our sicknesses, our pain, our weaknesses. We put on our brave face, our game face, our plastered-on smile, and make believe that even though they can see the blood running from our busted knee, it didn’t really hurt, we’ll be just fine.
We smile some of our prettiest smiles while the blood flows…
And the world likes it that way.
They say, “How are you?” But all they’re willing to hear is, “I’m doing well, how are you?”
And they slap a band-aid over their own seeping chest wounds and hold up the mask, “Very well! Nice weather we’re having.”
We’re all liars.
You know, Jesus didn’t try to hide his hurts, at all. Oh, he wasn’t a whiner by any stretch of imagination. But when he got up on that cross and bled and died, he didn’t fake it with a smile on his face.
And when Jesus comes to me and says, “How are you?” He wants me to trust him enough to lay down the mask, peel off the flimsy band-aids, and show him the depths of my pain.
Not only does he welcome my pain, but he can fix it.
He welcomes me just the way I am, but he won’t make me keep on suffering the way I always have.
“Jesus encourages us to acknowledge our weaknesses and then cling to him for the grace to function in spite of them.” – Andy Stanley, “The Grace of God.”
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