Much of my life has been driven by a single emotion: the desire to be wanted.
I grew up in a difficult neighborhood. It was almost all boys. And many times, I’ve told the stories about how they tortured me. If we played “tag,” I was always “it.” If we played baseball, they made me chase down the foul balls. They even once tied me to a tree with our dog’s chain. But the stories I never tell are the ones about the girls in the neighborhood. There were two of them and they were both a little older than I. I tried everything in the world to get them to let me join their club, and they would make me do the most horrible things. But after I had done everything they demanded and passed every initiation and test, they still wouldn’t let me in. Eventually, I learned that the torture of the boys hurt less than the rejection of the girls and I started to chase the boys again.
All I wanted was to belong. To be wanted.
It’s not a very popular fact with the world today, but we are wanted. Long ago, before the beginning of what we know as time, we were each created in the workroom of Heaven. And His great desire was for us to love and be loved by Him. But when He set us on this earth, we forgot Him. We ignored Him and did whatever felt good to us. And He sits in the workroom of Heaven, wishing for us to come back to Him.
If you’ve ever seen the movie, “My Big Fat Greek Wedding,” there’s a part where Maria (the mother of the bride) tells her daughter, “Toula, I gave you life so you could live it.” Toula loved her parents so much that she didn’t want her decisions to hurt them. Yet her mother gave her the gift of freedom: “I gave you life so you could live it!”
God has given us that gift. So, why don’t we receive it with gratefulness and reward it with love, the way Toula did? Instead, we look at God’s love as a burden. And we think that He doesn’t want us to live. We think that He’s going to give us a personality transplant, keep us from having any fun, and lock us into a box. When really, He’s just saying what Maria said to Toula. “I gave you life so you could live it.”
In Pursuit of God, A.W. Tozer says, “God wills that we should push on into His Presence and live our whole life there…. It is more than a doctrine to be held, it is a life to be enjoyed every moment of every day.” (Tozer, 23)
My friend John Hobbs says, “You can go anywhere, as long as you don’t have to let go of His hand.”
With God, I belong. I’m wanted. Everywhere I go.
Today we are discussing Chapter 3 of A.W. Tozer’s classic, Pursuit of God. You don’t have to read the book to stick around and chat! Jason Stasyszen and I love to hear what you have to add to the discussion! If you’ve written a response to this week’s chapter, please feel free to link it up in the widget below. Next week, we will be continuing with a second discussion on Chapter 3 and the widget will be at Jason’s.
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